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IT'S ADDICTING

7/14/2014

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It's Addicting releases July 14, 2014 (that's today!)
What are your little addictions?

Some of mine include: Starbucks, music, nail polish (no chips please, different colors on toes and fingers), exercise (I don’t care with who, or what or when, but I crave it), my phone (sad but true).

What are some of yours?

Maybe your addiction list includes; nachos, getting all A’s, your job, the beach, your sport/instrument/club/activity, Instagram, your best friend, a TV show, fashion, your boy friend…

Our lists could go on and on of the fun little interests, innocent cravings and even important responsibilities and relationships we’re “addicted” to. But when does a passion or interest become an “addiction”? When do these things that fill our minds and hours become modern day idols?

WHEN WE OVERDESIRE THEM.

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when they call your coffee an IV, you might have a problem
See, it’s not the desiring that’s a problem. God created coffee beans and cocoa beans and the guy you have a crush on. He created your brain and your body and wants you to use them to glorify Him. 

But when our little addictions conflict with or create tension with our family, our wallet, our values, our faith, when our “addiction” becomes more important than God, when we OVERDESIRE it, we’ve got a problem.

How do I mean?
I often plot out my morning to include a stop by my local Starbucks. I love my coffee. I get excited every morning when the aromatic smell wafts towards my nose, when the bold, rich flavor hits my tongue. And this is okay. God wants us to have pleasure, to enjoy this world and this life. He gave me taste buds that are receptive to the flavor of an iced venti with mocha and nonfat milk. But when I skip my quiet time with Him in the morning to make sure I get a coffee, when I’m late getting my kids to school or I show up late to a meeting, because I “needed” a coffee, this is an over desire. This is a problem.

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who's your best friend?
Do you have a friend you adore? Someone who makes you laugh and truly gets you? It’s great to spend time with them, to text them throughout the day about funny things, things you’re stressed about, or to plan adventures or weekends together. But when you lie to someone who’s close to you, so you can go somewhere with that friend or to cover up for that friend, there’s a problem.

See the pattern? So how do we rein in our addictions? How do we keep our pleasant little every day desires from becoming something we obsess over?

First, ask ourselves if we are seeking affirmation from these things we adore. Because we do sometimes, don’t we? We seek affirmation from the coolest nail art to the fastest time on the 10K to the most followers on Twitter. We do. But truly our entire identity, all of our affirmation should come from Christ who created us.

That means we will not compare ourselves with each other as if one of us were better and another worse. We have far more interesting things to do with our lives. Each of us is an original. Gal 5:26 MSG

Once we wrap our arms around this truth, we need to turn it over to Him in prayer.
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Once we wrap our arms around this truth, we need to turn it over to Him in prayer.

When I have a morning where going to Starbucks will stretch my wallet, make me late, or cause unnecessary stress as I try to squeeze it into a tight schedule, I can pray, “Jesus, You are the only thing that truly satisfies me. Please let me drink you in this day, and feel you working in and through me. Let me taste Your goodness. Amen.” And then I can brew myself a cup in my Keurig and be thankful.

When your boyfriend or friend wants you to do something that compromises your values -- whether that’s gossiping or drinking or blowing off an assignment, and you’re craving their acceptance, pray something like this, “Please Jesus, I long for companionship, for love. I know that You are my constant companion, that You love me always. Please remind me of that love. Please fill me up with it. Let me realize it is better and fuller and more satisfying than any earthly relationship.”

And then read Bible verses (better yet, memorize a few) that will remind you of these things, that Jesus is enough. That in fact He’s everything we need. That we should crave Him, long for Him, seek Him and seek to please Him, and we will be valued and loved and treasured.
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Here are some that help me:

For you formed my inward parts;
you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made    ~Psalm 139:14

God not only loves you very much but also has put His hand on you for something special   ~ 1 Thessalonians 1:4

It matters very little to me what you think of me, even less where I rank in popular opinion. I don’t even rank myself. Comparisons in these matters are pointless   ~1 Corinthians 4:3

It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.   ~Galatians 5:1 
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It's Addicting, the third book in my Status Updates series releases today, July 14, 2014.
My characters in my new novel, It’s Addicting, encounter these very types of addictions -- the fun things that seem innocent enough. Follow college roommates Kat, Claire, Hannah and Palmer as they learn, explore, grow, discover and sometimes fall prey to their over desires in this third installment of the Status Updates series. 

What about you? Have any addictions you'd like to share?
7 Comments
Adriana Lister link
7/19/2014 03:04:39 am

Awesome post! I also want you to know I LOVED It's Addicting :)

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Laura Smith link
7/20/2014 10:38:01 pm

Thanks so much, Adriana! Glad you enjoyed the latest book in the Status Updates series. Who's your favorite of the four roommates?

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Adriana Lister link
7/21/2014 01:26:50 am

Hmm... I like them all but I think Kat is my favourite of the four :)

Amber
7/20/2014 03:39:56 pm

Love the practical/application side of this post! Praying when I have to skip coffee?!? I usually cry. :)

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Laura Smith link
7/20/2014 10:39:42 pm

Oh my, I didn't say skip coffee altogether, did I??? Just settle for mediocre coffee. I mean, in a pinch, not as a routine. God definitely created coffee beans - He's so grand!

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Laura L. Smith link
7/23/2014 12:16:40 am

Adrianna, Kat is pretty special, but all the characters are special to me! Thanks for reading about them!

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Adriana Lister link
7/23/2014 01:12:52 am

^_^ that's like me with all my characters. They're all very special to me ^_^

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