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HIPPIE CHICK

1/12/2016

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My favorite style? Hippie chick!
​Once upon a time my wardrobe consisted of suits, practical dresses, and slacks (primarily purchased at Ann Taylor). Every week I’d fly to a swanky suburb of DC, grind out a day’s full of meetings in my business attire, then top off my day with carryout I’d devour back in my hotel prior to crashing. I’d begin the next morning with a run on the hotel treadmill only to dive back in again full force, wearing a sensible suit, of course.
 
If you know me, you might be puzzled. Who is that person I just described.
 
I was a product of the world I lived in. I’d gone to a well-respected university, graduated with my business degree, worked my way up the ladder of my corporate real estate firm, and bought into the outfits and lifestyle associated with it. I enjoyed my job, made good money, traveled, and worked with a great group of people. I’d always been told to “dress for success” and to “dress for the job I wanted to have, not the position I currently held.” And this was great advice. It IS important to wear clothing appropriate for your place in life—my army pants, Rasta belt and concert tees would have been a no-no at work. Out of respect, it was important for me to dress professionally. But I was so caught up in “looking the part” that I conformed 100% to the business attire expectations. I traded out the funky accessories and edgier styles I loved (and that would have been perfectly acceptable) for pulled back hair and tailored clothes. But it wasn’t me! It was like a version of me playacting. And so, my gypsy skirts and stacks of bracelets got pushed further and further back in my closet to make room for the costume I wore each day to fully get into character, to attempt to impress others.
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I tried on a pair of those old slacks the other day. They were black, basic, classic. I thought they’d look nice with a cute top for a celebration I was attending. And they would look lovely on so many people I know. But, I couldn’t yank them off myself fast enough. Whose pants were these? They fit my body, but they didn’t fit me. I have loads of friends who thrive in the corporate world, who look stunning in suits, and Ann Taylor continues to sell lovely, well-manufactured clothes. But that’s never who I truly was. While trying to impress my boss and clients, I lost sight of my true reflection. You see, at heart, I’m a hippie chick.
 
I’m back to embracing that inner flower child—feeling more comfortable in my own skin, and my own clothes than ever. I got a hobo bag and bell-bottoms for Christmas. LOVE! I feel happy inside when I wear flowing blouses and dresses with flippy skirts, when I wrap myself in scarves, and when I let my crazy curls down. I feel pretty and at home and energized and like I’m exactly who I’m supposed to be.
 
Who are you? Who did God create you to be? What’s stopping you from being that person? From letting your true reflection shine?
 

Are you dressing up and playing the part the world dictates? Conforming to what your friends, your company, your team, or your neighbors are wearing? Are you doing the opposite of me? Dressing Boho, because your girlfriends are making their own granola and hanging around music festivals, even though you’d feel more at ease in a suit perfectly balancing numbers and ledgers in a row? Are you going Goth, because all the other artists and performers you hang out with are, even though you secretly wish your name was Muffy? Are you spiffing up, although more comfortable in athletic wear, or vice versa? Or are you embracing the style of your beautiful, amazing self?
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I'm donating my old suits to someone they "suit" better
Yes, there are times when appropriate attire is necessary. When a uniform is required to work, play, volunteer, march, etc. When we are more formal out of respect (weddings, funerals, meetings). When we dress down for functionality (gardening, cleaning, building). Hiking boots help us climb. Rain boots keep our feet dry. Riding boots protect our feet while on horseback. But when it’s just you, going about your daily routine, what are you wearing? Why? Are you a clone of the people around you? Or do you exercise your own God-given individual style? You are an original. Dress like it. You’ll feel as beautiful as you truly are.
 
What’s your absolute favorite article of clothing or personal style? I’d love to hear. Just click on the “Read More” tab/“Comments” below.
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Missy Friede
1/13/2016 04:36:36 am

I'm a hippy chick too! A free flowing white shirt bought in Nepal 15 years ago and a long comfy skirt! Love these blogs Laura!! You always hit my sweet spot and resonate to my focus on God's gift of uniqueness to all His children. It's one of the most precious gifts that I cherish in daily interactions with new and old acquaintances.

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Laura Smith link
1/13/2016 06:39:00 am

Hooray for Hippy Chicks! You always have a great sense of style, Missy! My favorite clothing items are also things I've gotten on my travels -- them take me back to the things I saw, tasted, felt, the people I met, the experiences of the trip. You are a blessing to all who have the pleasure of encountering you!

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Amy Potts
1/14/2016 10:48:54 am

As a recovering pastor's wife and corporate girl, I have been released from the bondage of hoserie and pumps.

My life has been transformed by the living Christ to be at home in jeans and bare feet. (In fact I preach barefoot) Maybe a shirt or ball cap with my favorite sports team logo on a day when I'm feeling like pushing away all stressors.

Feeling free emotionally and spiritually from things of the past has allowed me to toss away what you referred to as "costumes". I'm no longer ashamed of who I really am.

Great insightful post.

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Laura L. Smith link
1/14/2016 01:21:14 pm

Everyone should trash the hosiery!
And well said, transformed by the living Christ, what a gift, to see us how He sees us, beautiful the way He made us, especially when we're barefoot :)

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Jane link
6/1/2016 11:54:10 pm

This is a good reading post, Laura
Thank for share this

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