WHAT GOD TAUGHT ME IN 2020

I know we’re almost a month into 2021, but I’m still processing what happened in 2020. You? Nothing looked like we thought it would last year. But in those changes I learned so much. When the routine didn’t just click away as usual, we had to adjust and revise and try different. And in the midst of adapting and being flexible I discovered some really wonderful new ways of doing and approaching things I’d like to carry forward, no matter what 2021 or the years after that bring. These are some of my biggest takeaways from the past calendar year:

photo by Jaycee Eastman

1. Less busy is better. The pandemic sure had a way of clearing my calendar. And although I mourned the loss of things planned for me and my family I found that overall the less hurried lifestyle made for a fuller life. I was more rested and had more margin. Both of these things gave me time to think and reflect. It gave me the ability to say, “yes,” to the meaningful conversations, impromptu walks and engage better in them, because I was less hurried and scattered. It helped me savor the moments because I wasn’t in a rush to get on to the next. ​
2. Whenever possible say, “yes,” to family interactions. Say, “yes,” I’ll run grab coffee or go to the post office with you. “Yes,” I have time to watch an episode of The Great British Baking Show. “Yes,” I’d love to see your Lego creation, hear your song, see the picture you took, read the email you received. These moments are priceless. Of course we can’t say, “yes,” to everything. It’s important to still set boundaries and prioritize things we’re responsible for. But when we can, we should opt in to time with our family members. At the end of the day, and of our lives, these will be the moments that mattered most. And when I do #1 on this list better--say, “no” to the busyness, I have the capacity to do #2 better and more often.
3. The woods are good for my soul. Two new trails opened up in our town. It’s as if they were perfectly orchestrated for when the world shut down in March. When we couldn’t go any-where, we could go on the newly opened trails. And so our family did. On walks and runs and strolls. By ourselves, together, and it was the one way I actually saw a couple of my friends. Out there, with tree branches stretched overhead cocooning me from the noise and digital and lights of the man-made world I got back to creation. Time and time again away from the clutter I heard God speak to me out there. I breathed better and thought better. I smelled heady Queen Anne’s Lace blooming in the summer, rich, earthy damp soil in the spring, the sweet scent of fallen leaves in the autumn, and the pure, crispness of snow in the winter. Whenever possible going forward, I want to choose the woods over a sidewalk or a gym, because I find the closer I get to creation, the closer I get to my Creator.

The woods where I run bring me closer to God.

4. Family church rocks! I love my actual church. I miss worshipping with a crowd of believers and seeing the people I adore. Live preaching from my pastor engages me more than when I watch him on a screen. But, oh my. Church with our family gathered in our family room, pajamas on, Bibles out, voices raised together is a beautiful thing. It’s not what we chose, but when church went online last spring, God did something mighty in our house. What a great reminder that church doesn’t have to look, feel, or be a certain way. Church is when followers of Jesus join together to learn, talk about, and praise Him. And when we do. He always shows up.
​5. Unstructured Bible study is also phenomenal. I’ve taught Bible study for years. It typically looks like a room full of women. Sometimes we watch brilliant videos by gifted Bible teachers like Priscilla Shirer. Sometimes I teach a lesson to the group. There are usually snacks. And coffee. And discussion after the teaching. And it’s wonderful. But rooms full of people were not in vogue this year. So, every now and then two or three women and I would gather outside with our Bibles. There wasn’t a video or a lesson plan. It wasn’t on a certain day or at a certain time. But sharing what God was doing in our lives. Admitting our struggles. Encouraging and praying for one another was beyond powerful. It fed me spiritually during some of the hardest days of 2020.

How do we take what we learned and apply it going forward?

6.  My mental health deserves attention. I care for myself in a lot of ways. I try to eat well, exercise, get enough sleep. But my feelings? Well, I’m a pretty happy and extremely blessed girl, so no complaints. Right? Most of the time, that’s true. But I have some baggage. We all do. And recently I’ve been realizing it’s good for me to admit the hard parts, to feel the feelings, to ask for help in processing them. And although it’s hard to dive into the icky, painful, embarrassing parts of me, it’s good. It’s important. I feel God restoring shards of my soul.

There were more things God taught me. Some of them just for Him and me to process. Some seemed redundant to put on this list, but they mattered in different ways to me. What about you? What did God teach you in 2020? Leave a comment sharing something you’d like to carry into 2021 and beyond.
 
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